If you don’t share it to Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat and WhatsApp, it never happened. You never experienced that moment. Let’s have a heart to heart conversation on this matter.
There is a clear line between sharing your life with the world and seeking validation from the world for your life. Lately I’ve been seeing more of the latter. Some people can cloud your timeline with reminders of just how good their job is, their relationship, marriage, house, children…the list, goes on. Somehow you know when one is simply sharing their life and when one is seeking notice. Not just relating to social media, but also just in daily living.
Imagine this scenario: Me and You don’t really talk on a day to day basis. But I’m cool with that, cause I know we regard each other from a distance silently, though we do not know each other personally. But when I run into you in public, you want me to salute you like we just relate on such a deep personal level? And then you get annoyed when I do not regard you highly in public. Let’s be real please. The way I interact with someone I’m not close with in private is the exact same way I will approach them in public. While I am polite and friendly, I do not feed or fan anyone’s ego if they’re out to seek attention.
Attention seekers are everywhere!. Everything they do, they do it to gain validation, acceptance, popularity or even to spite you. Your validation is their source of pride.
Although pride is one of the many cracks in human nature, it can be suppressed by the filling of the holy spirit, instead of self. So because you’ve secured a new status in life – something with “high esteem”, you peer down at others like they’re beneath you, expecting them to regard you highly. Walking around with this arrogant pride. Seeking public validation. I tell you, all this is vanity. This esteem you view as all important is really nothing in the eyes of the one who actually holds us accountable for how we live. Treating people with genuine kindness and impartiality leaves more impact than being boastful and spiteful.
This quote is from my post ‘ How to Intentionally Grow In Life‘
At the end of the day, it’s not about how many people know your name or how many names you know. It’s about how many people are impacted by your acts of kindness, show of respect and value of integrity through it all. Seek wisdom from God to live a good fulfilled life, not validation from mere human beings.
Here’s to living fulfilled lives,